In working toward getting back with your ex, some of the things you do aren't really things at all. In other words, you can sometimes act by NOT taking any action... and this is something most guys fail to realize.
As a man, you're used to taking action. You're accustomed to reacting or doing something in the face of adversity, and you'll rush to commit yourself to rectifying a problem when things go wrong.
When it came to your unwanted breakup, you probably dove headlong into 'fixing' the situation. The only problem? You didn't really know how.
So you called, you texted, you emailed... you did everything you could to convince your ex that she should want you back, but in the process, you didn't realize you were doing exactly the opposite of what you really should've been doing the whole time.
And basically, this is why you're here. This is why you're reading this page right now, instead of watching a movie with your arm around your girlfriend.
You never want to push your ex too hard...
especially with this bad of a haircut
Simply telling your ex that you want her back isn't going to get her. Showing her (through flowers, cards, heartfelt love notes, etc...) is an even worse approach.
To make your girlfriend miss you, you have to drop completely out of her life.
You need to disappear from every aspect of her existence, and you need to do it as quickly as possible.
Yet too many times, you'll feel tempted to call your ex. You'll leave messages asking if she's "doing alright", and you'll send what you think to be a bunch of innocent little text-messages geared toward "saying hello" or ones that are "just checking up on her".
What's really happening her, is that you're doing all these things for yourself. It's selfish and your girlfriend knows it. You're not at all concerned with how your ex is doing, and this is the big problem.
You CAN'T tell your ex that you're thinking about her, or that you've been considering her at all. These things will make her uncomfortable, and in a very short time she'll be avoiding any kind of contact with you at all.
While you're chasing her, your ex will NEVER miss you. She'll never want you back, because she already has too much of you.