Now that you know why your ex girlfriend is texting you, what should you do?
Is it okay to text your ex back? If so, what do you say to her? What types of things can help make her interested in you again?
Before doing anything, you need to understand something about the art of reversing a breakup. Because universally, no matter what the circumstances surrounding the end of your relationship, there's always one rule that stands strong:
The more you give her, the less she needs you.
In other words, the more of yourself you reveal to your ex girlfriend, the less she's going to need more of you. The more information she has about your post-breakup life, the less of a mystery you become... and the less interesting you become, to boot.
Keeping this in mind, you DON'T want to answer your ex girlfriend's text messages. Not right away, at any rate.
The longer you can go without answering her, and the more you can actually skip over her attempts at contacting you through text? The more and more she'll actually need to hear from you again.
Ignoring your ex's text-messages long enough will result in something even better and more valuable: the ex girlfriend phone call.
Want to regain her attention really fast? Ignore her texts.
Close your eyes for a moment, and imagine how much courage and nerve it took for your ex girlfriend to actually send you a text message.
Got it? Good. Now imagine her reaction when you don't text back.
Imagine the questions that run through her mind when she doesn't immediately get a response from you. Is he mad? Is he angry? Or maybe he just doesn't care?
Your ex will automatically assume the worst: it's an unfortunate aspect of human nature to assume the most negative possible scenarion when trying to make something happen.
When she doesn't hear from you, your ex girlfriend will instantly wonder if you've completely moved on. She'll think that maybe you're over the breakup, or even started dating someone else.
Text messages are SO easy to ignore. Instead of giving her the satisfaction of an instant response (as well as risk looking desperate to hear from her again), you can take the opposite approach. You can delete your ex's text, and pretend like you never got it in the first place.
And when she does eventually call? Blow it off. Shrug, and act like you didn't get her text... or even better, tell her you got it, but you've been so busy you 'haven't had the chance to respond to her yet'.
Handling the text this way will get INSTANT results. You've seized back a good chunk of power, and you have some control again. Suddenly, your exgirlfriend realizes you're not at her beck and call. You're not hanging off her every word, and you're not just a phone call away whenever she feels like making it.
In her eyes, you suddenly have a life of your own. This is attractive to your ex girlfriend. Knowing that you've got things going on outside of her, or the breakup, is a tremendous part of making your ex want you back.
Other Ways To Make Your Ex Girlfriend Want You Back
Once you know that your ex is still interested in you, it's time to accelerate the process of getting her back. There are several ways to do this, including a long list of ways you can make your exgirlfriend jealous.
Additionally, if you need help in getting her attention, there are methods and techniques you can use to do that too. Check out the extremely effective reversal techniques found here for ways of using your ex's buried feelings for you to your advantage.