Exgirlfriend Texting

Why Is My Ex Girlfriend Still Texting Me?

Why she's texting you, and how you can use it to win her back

The breakup is over, the relationship is done... but the text-messages from your ex just keep on coming.

So what does it mean when your ex girlfriend still texts you after the breakup? Is she just stuck in the habit? Is she trying to be friendly? Or is there another motive behind all this post-breakup communication?

In most cases, it's the latter. There's usually something 'up' when your ex is still messaging you even after ending your relationship. What she wants isn't always obvious, but an ex who doesn't stop the texting is an exgirlfriend who's not yet ready to break all ties between you.

Texting is a funny thing. Some couples spend all day text-messaging each other, sending dozens or even hundreds of little messages back and forth over the course of a 24 hour period.

If you and your girlfriend were one of those couples, it's going to be hard for her to quit texting you cold turkey. One of the benefits (if you could call it that) if such constant communication is the comfort she derived by knowing where you are and what you're doing... all day long.

Texts From Ex Girlfriend
Your ex is texting you for a reason.

This creates a type of reliance on text-messaging; both you and your girlfriend might develop an unwanted insecurity in going hours and now even days without knowing what the other person is up to. Now that you're broken up, each of you is entitled to do your own thing. But in keeping up the text-messages, your ex girlfriend is actually keeping up with your daily life and activities

And why would she do this? Why would your ex girlfriend want to know what you're up to even after dumping you?

The answer to that is pretty simple: she's not 100% sure. Your girlfriend may have broken up with you, but she's not entirely comfortable with cutting you loose completely. Hence, the umbilical cord of text-messaging.

Motives Behind Your Ex Girlfriend Texting You

If you're trying to get your girlfriend back, any text-message you get from her is good news. It's a sign she's interested in keeping the lines of communication open, even if she's texting you something as simple as asking for her stuff back.

Think of it this way: if she wanted her things back your ex would call and ask for them. Texting you is almost borderline immature. Why? Because to get that stuff back, she's going to need to see you anyway. It's not like she can avoid running into you if she contacts you exclusively through texting.

This is true in a lot of cases; your ex will text you because she doesn't want to talk to you on the phone. Phone calls are a lot more personal, and since she just dumped you she's probably gunshy. Speaking to you requires a lot more intimate of a connection, which is why she'll choose to hammer out a text-message way before actually talking to you.

Does My Ex Want Me Back if She Keeps Texting Me?

So does the act of texting you mean your ex girlfriend wants to get back together? Not necessarily... and probably not now, at any rate. But it IS a lot more positive a sign than you might initially realize.

Getting Texts From Ex Girlfriend
Texting is a big sign that she can't let go

Your girlfriend won't be texting you if she wants you out of her life.

She wouldn't still be sending you messages if she didn't care what you were doing.

Most of all, your ex wouldn't be blowing up your phone at all if she'd found someone else, or had some other guy in mind that she possibly wanted to date.

Essentially, an ex looking to forget about you would simply move on. She would not be texting you at all. Period, end of story.

Knowing that your exgirlfriend is still interested in your life can be a valuable tool while trying to get her back. It can help you plan the timing of your approach, and know when it's safe to make certain moves.

Learn these timing methods to find out when it's okay to take a step in your ex's direction, and when it's better to hang back and wait for her.

What To Do When Your Ex Keeps Texting You

Now that you know why your ex girlfriend is texting you, what should you do?

Is it okay to text your ex back? If so, what do you say to her? What types of things can help make her interested in you again?

Before doing anything, you need to understand something about the art of reversing a breakup. Because universally, no matter what the circumstances surrounding the end of your relationship, there's always one rule that stands strong:

The more you give her, the less she needs you.

In other words, the more of yourself you reveal to your ex girlfriend, the less she's going to need more of you. The more information she has about your post-breakup life, the less of a mystery you become... and the less interesting you become, to boot.

Keeping this in mind, you DON'T want to answer your ex girlfriend's text messages. Not right away, at any rate.

The longer you can go without answering her, and the more you can actually skip over her attempts at contacting you through text? The more and more she'll actually need to hear from you again.

Ignoring your ex's text-messages long enough will result in something even better and more valuable: the ex girlfriend phone call.

Ignoring Ex's Text Messages
Want to regain her attention really fast? Ignore her texts.

Close your eyes for a moment, and imagine how much courage and nerve it took for your ex girlfriend to actually send you a text message.

Got it? Good. Now imagine her reaction when you don't text back.

Imagine the questions that run through her mind when she doesn't immediately get a response from you. Is he mad? Is he angry? Or maybe he just doesn't care?

Your ex will automatically assume the worst: it's an unfortunate aspect of human nature to assume the most negative possible scenarion when trying to make something happen.

When she doesn't hear from you, your ex girlfriend will instantly wonder if you've completely moved on. She'll think that maybe you're over the breakup, or even started dating someone else.

Text messages are SO easy to ignore. Instead of giving her the satisfaction of an instant response (as well as risk looking desperate to hear from her again), you can take the opposite approach. You can delete your ex's text, and pretend like you never got it in the first place.

And when she does eventually call? Blow it off. Shrug, and act like you didn't get her text... or even better, tell her you got it, but you've been so busy you 'haven't had the chance to respond to her yet'.

Handling the text this way will get INSTANT results. You've seized back a good chunk of power, and you have some control again. Suddenly, your exgirlfriend realizes you're not at her beck and call. You're not hanging off her every word, and you're not just a phone call away whenever she feels like making it.

In her eyes, you suddenly have a life of your own. This is attractive to your ex girlfriend. Knowing that you've got things going on outside of her, or the breakup, is a tremendous part of making your ex want you back.

Other Ways To Make Your Ex Girlfriend Want You Back

Once you know that your ex is still interested in you, it's time to accelerate the process of getting her back. There are several ways to do this, including a long list of ways you can make your exgirlfriend jealous.

Additionally, if you need help in getting her attention, there are methods and techniques you can use to do that too. Check out the extremely effective reversal techniques found here for ways of using your ex's buried feelings for you to your advantage.

 
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